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Monday, November 16, 2009

Untuk Renungan

Some of you may already know that I travel around the region pretty frequently, having to visit and conduct seminars at my offices in Malaysia , Indonesia , Thailand and Suzhou ( China ). I am in the airport almost every other week so I get to bump into many people who have attended my seminars or have read my books.

Recently, someone came up to me on a plane to KL and looked rather shocked. He asked, 'How come a millionaire like you is traveling economy?'  My reply was, 'That's why I am a millionaire. ' He still looked pretty confused.  This again confirms that greatest lie ever told about wealth(which I wrote about in my latest book 'Secrets of Self-Made Millionaires' ). Many people have been brainwashed to think that millionaires have to
wear Gucci, Hugo Boss, Rolex, and sit on first class in air travel. This is why so  many people never become rich because the moment that they earn more money, they think that it is only natural that they spend more, putting them back to square one.
The truth is that most self-made millionaires are frugal and only spend on what is necessary and of value. That is why they are able to accumulate and multiply their wealth so much faster.  Over the last 7 years, I have saved about 80% of my income while today save only about 60% (because I have my wife, mother in law, 2 maids, 2 kids, etc. to support).  Still, it is way above most people who save 10% of their income (if they are lucky).


I refuse to buy a first class ticket or to buy a $300 shirt because I think that it is a complete waste of money. However, I happily pay $1,300 to send my 2-year old daughter to Julia Gabriel Speech and Drama without thinking twice. When I joined the YEO (Young Entrepreneur' s Orgn)a few years back (YEO) is an exclusive club open to those who are under 40 and make over $1m a year in their own business) I discovered that those who were self-made thought like me.  Many of them with net worth well over $5m,traveled economy class and some even drove Toyota 's and Nissans,not Audis,
Mercs, BMWs.  I noticed that it was only those who never had to work hard to build their own wealth (there were also a few ministers' and tycoons' sons in the club) who spent like there was no tomorrow. Somehow, when you did not have to build everything from scratch, you do not really value money. This is precisely the reason why a family's wealth (no matter how much) rarely lasts past the third generation Thank God my rich dad foresaw this terrible possibility and refused to give me a cent to start my business.


Then some people ask me, 'What is the point in making so much money if you don't enjoy it?' The thing is that I don't really find happiness in buying branded clothes, jewellery or sitting first class.  Even if buying something makes me happy it is only for a while, it does not last.

Material happiness never lasts, it just give you a quick fix. After a while you feel lousy again and have to buy the next thing which you think will make you happy. I always think that if you need material things to make you happy, then you live a pretty sad and unfulfilled life..

Instead, what makes me happy is when I see my children laughing and playing and learning so fast. What makes me happy is when I see my companies and trainers reaching more and more people every year in so many more countries.

What makes me really happy is when I read all the emails about how my books and seminars have touched and inspired someone's life.  What makes me really happy is reading all your wonderful posts about how this blog is inspiring you. This happiness makes me feel really good for a long time, much much more than what a Rolex would do for me.

I think the point I want to put across is that happiness must come from doing your life's work (be it teaching, building homes, designing, trading, winning tournaments etc.) and the money that comes is only a by-product. If you hate what you are doing and rely on the money you earn to make you happy by buying stuff, then I think that you are living a life of meaninglessness.

Power of Money, By Adam Khoo
( Singapore 's youngest millionaire at 26 yrs.)

Thursday, November 12, 2009

hawa....

Allah S.W.T berfirman: 
Ketika  Aku  menciptakan seorang wanita, ia diharuskan untuk
menjadi seorang  yang istimewa. Aku membuat bahunya cukup kuat untuk
menopang dunia; namun, harus cukup lembut untuk memberikan kenyamanan." 


"Aku  memberikannya  kekuatan  dari dalam untuk mampu melahirkan
anak dan menerima penolakan yang seringkali datang dari anak-anaknya." 


"Aku   memberinya  kekerasan  untuk  membuatnya  tetap  tegar
ketika orang-orang   lain   menyerah,   dan   mengasuh   keluarganya
dengan penderitaan dan kelelahan tanpa mengeluh." 


"Aku  memberinya  kepekaan  untuk mencintai anak-anaknya dalam
setiap keadaan, bahkan ketika anaknya bersikap sangat menyakiti hatinya." 


"Aku  memberinya kekuatan untuk mendukung suaminya dalam kegagalannya
dan   melengkapi   dengan  tulang  rusuk  suaminya  untuk melindungi hatinya." 


"Aku  memberinya  kebijaksanaan  untuk mengetahui bahwa seorang
suami yang  baik  takkan  pernah menyakiti isterinya, tetapi kadang
menguji kekuatannya  dan ketetapan hatinya untuk berada disisi suaminya
tanpa ragu." 


"Dan  akhirnya,  Aku memberinya air mata untuk dititiskan. Ini
adalah khusus miliknya untuk digunakan bilapun ia perlukan." 


"Kecantikan seorang wanita bukanlah dari pakaian yang dikenakannya, susuk
yang ia tampilkan, atau bagaimana ia menyisir rambutnya.Kecantikan seorang
wanita harus dilihat dari matanya, kerana itulah pintu hatinya, tempat
dimana cinta itu ada." 


























































Thursday, November 5, 2009

for man..haha


A man was sitting reading his papers when his wife hit him round the head
with a frying pan. 
'What was that for?' the man asked.
The wife replied 'That was for the piece of paper with the name Jenny
on it that I found in your pants pocket'.
The man then said 'When I was at the races last week Jenny was the name
of the horse I bet on'

The wife apologized and went on with the housework.
Three days later the man is watching TV when his wife bashes him on the
head with an even bigger frying pan, knocking him unconscious.

Upon re-gaining consciousness the man asked why she had hit again.
Wife replied. 'Your horse phoned!!!

Monday, November 2, 2009

Lately suke gile layan lagu jiwang ni...ehm biar la....

Hanya aku je yg tau hati aku and hanya aku je yg blh jg ht aku sendiri..kepada yg x sudi dengar x payah sibuk2 nk dengar..

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UHy9UyFsAAY

la satu...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnthkSiVI9I&feature=fvw


>>>>>masih berdoa agar kebahagiaan lalu datang kembali.....

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